So after years and years of hiding, you have finally mustered the courage to come out of your closet. Regardless if you have done it over Facebook, Twitter or whatever social media account you have, you will be in an emotional roller coaster with surge of people being surprised with your revelations.

And now that you are out and free, probably your next course of action is to be in a relationship. Your first ever gay relationship. Thing is, you are clueless and you don’t know what to do. Allow me to give you ideas on how you can navigate through this crazy experience.

Number 1. Face Your Doubts

Okay, nobody ever goes into a relationship with an intention of ending it in few months after. But what if it’s not the right person for you? Are you stuck with vagina/penis for the rest of your days? Let yourself to settle for someone.

All these questions are natural. But just to give you a quick tip, go to whatever that feels right and be chill with it.

Number 2. Bank Balance!

You will be facing minor arguments on your identity and that’s for sure. This is regardless if you have revealed who you really want to be. But you will have tons of money to spend on more important things. After all, you don’t have a girlfriend you feel responsible with to take out on a date. Use the money for yourself for the moment.